Digital Co-Parenting: Why I Advocate for Digital Calendars

In the realm of co-parenting, having separate calendars with mutual invitations can bring down conflict and create smoother communication. When each co-parent has their own calendar and invites the other to accept appointments, it not only streamlines scheduling but also creates a clear record of shared responsibilities.

Addressing common resentments in co-parenting, such as feeling burdened with all the scheduling responsibilities or frustration about missed communication, an electronic calendar proves to be a practical solution. Here's how:

• Shared Scheduling Responsibility:

  • Both co-parents can actively schedule events, eliminating the frustration of one party bearing the entire scheduling burden.

• Transparent Parenting Contributions:

  • All child-related items, even unexpected events, are recorded on the calendar, providing a visible representation of each party's parenting involvement.

• Effortless Communication:

  • The only communication needed is sending and accepting invitations. This minimizes the potential for conflicts, as scheduling becomes a straightforward process.

• Read Receipts and Reminders:

  • Once an invitation is accepted, you have the assurance that the other party has read it.

  • Set reminders to ensure timely departures, eliminating the excuse of forgetfulness.

By leveraging shared electronic calendars, co-parents can overcome common challenges, fostering a more cooperative and efficient co-parenting experience. It's a simple yet powerful tool that not only eases scheduling woes but also promotes transparency and accountability in shared parenting responsibilities.